Good Sunday Morning
to You, Sweet Friends,
Hope you have a really Wonderful
Day!
Day!
Here is our quote to ponder for today.
Do not waste time bothering if
you "Love" your neighbor,
act as if you do.
by C S. Lewis
I used to work for a wonderful
Christian lady named Mary Crowley
who owned a work from Home-
Party plan business called
"Home Interiors and Gifts."
Although, I never met this dear lady
in person, I learned a lot from listening
to her tapes and from what others who
had met her had to say.
One such taped lesson flew to
mind when I saw this quote......
It was really about marriage but
I think It can really fit with just
about any relationship really.
She was talking about what to
do when you weren't feeling
particularly loving towards your
spouse. She suggested that you
think of all the things you do for
your spouse when you do feel
loving towards them, like maybe
making their fav dinner/dessert,
or give them a back rub, write
them a complimentary note, give
a hug, or an offer of help, etc.
You get the idea.......
then you do these things, as if
you did feel loving towards them.
To be honest, when I heard that
I was thinking isn't that a bit
hypocritical or phony......but I
am just dumb enough to try
things, especially when It comes
from a good source. So guess
what I found out??
I found out...that as I did those
loving acts I began to have lov-
ing feelings toward my spouse
or whoever once again. This is
really what you call living by
faith and not your feelings.
God tells us to love others....
and if we are obedient to his
call.......then sometimes we
might have to fake it till we
make it..........but I believe
the Lord honors our faith in
doing what He tells us to do,
and that is why our feelings
begin to line up with what
we did as an act of obedience
to Him. We can all have fickle
feelings depending on our
circumstances, hormones or
when we might not be feeling
great physically and the like...
so this is a great way to take
care of those fickle feelings.....
Happy Pondering!!
Love, Hugs and
Special Sunday Blessings,
Nellie
Sorry for the Wonky writing, tried
several tmes to fix it but to no avail.
Sharing with:
Life and Linda with Linda and Friends
Dwellings with Cindy
Stone Gable with Yvonne and Friends
Saavy Southern Life with Kim
Walking on Sunshine with Lois and Friends
Life with Lorelai with Lorelai and Friends
Shabby Art Boutique with Kerryanne
The Craftberry Bush with Lucy and Friends
you "Love" your neighbor,
act as if you do.
by C S. Lewis
I used to work for a wonderful
Christian lady named Mary Crowley
who owned a work from Home-
Party plan business called
"Home Interiors and Gifts."
Although, I never met this dear lady
in person, I learned a lot from listening
to her tapes and from what others who
had met her had to say.
One such taped lesson flew to
mind when I saw this quote......
It was really about marriage but
I think It can really fit with just
about any relationship really.
She was talking about what to
do when you weren't feeling
particularly loving towards your
spouse. She suggested that you
think of all the things you do for
your spouse when you do feel
loving towards them, like maybe
making their fav dinner/dessert,
or give them a back rub, write
them a complimentary note, give
a hug, or an offer of help, etc.
You get the idea.......
then you do these things, as if
you did feel loving towards them.
To be honest, when I heard that
I was thinking isn't that a bit
hypocritical or phony......but I
am just dumb enough to try
things, especially when It comes
from a good source. So guess
what I found out??
I found out...that as I did those
loving acts I began to have lov-
ing feelings toward my spouse
or whoever once again. This is
really what you call living by
faith and not your feelings.
God tells us to love others....
and if we are obedient to his
call.......then sometimes we
might have to fake it till we
make it..........but I believe
the Lord honors our faith in
doing what He tells us to do,
and that is why our feelings
begin to line up with what
we did as an act of obedience
to Him. We can all have fickle
feelings depending on our
circumstances, hormones or
when we might not be feeling
great physically and the like...
so this is a great way to take
care of those fickle feelings.....
Happy Pondering!!
Love, Hugs and
Special Sunday Blessings,
Nellie
Sorry for the Wonky writing, tried
several tmes to fix it but to no avail.
Sharing with:
Life and Linda with Linda and Friends
Dwellings with Cindy
Stone Gable with Yvonne and Friends
Saavy Southern Life with Kim
Walking on Sunshine with Lois and Friends
Life with Lorelai with Lorelai and Friends
Shabby Art Boutique with Kerryanne
The Craftberry Bush with Lucy and Friends